Unfortunately,
in life we cannot be alone. We need each other and we will have to work with
all types of personalities. So, there are some points that need be considered
deeply and carefully…
- Most people are naturally led.
They like to feel the comfort of being led, the safety of not taking decisions
of their own, the tranquility of their minds by not taking risks. This doesn’t
mean that this is bad, but need to be assessed well.
- Peoples' decisions, thoughts
and even their most personal opinions are not mostly theirs. Most of them exist
by the people whom they are influenced by. And that happens –unconscientiously-
through their emotions of love, attraction, admiration and so on.
- Never expect those who are on
the same side of your opinion to stand by you in such hard or awkward positions.
- People always forget. Except
for the mistakes of course. They only remember those bad ones.
- Never believe that most
people are good. No matter how good they look. Most of them are full of hatred,
jealousness, egocentrism and arrogance… Only few. VERY few are good. And Yes.
They exist.
- The same way you see people's
sicknesses, some see more darkness in you too. So, some hate you for real.
Never expect to be loved by everyone.
-
Most people don't let you know that they hate you. They are just waiting for
the right moment to revenge.
- Actually, the hardest moments
might be the best. They show you the true colors of people. So, never get upset
when you see how bad can people be.
…….
So.
- You need to examine your soul
from time to time for "How much of your true self have you really been for
the last few months?"
- Never ever try to prove how
good you are. You don't need to do so. And moments and actions will show. Even
if some interfered and pasted a fake picture of you. Never try to prove your
goodness by telling how good you are. Later actions will reveal the truth.
And
even if it didn’t appear, you don’t need to prove.
- Never take quick impression,
unless you see the right moments that show their true colors. Even with months
or may be years of relationships.
- Do not get distracted by tiny
little unimportant problems. And never Rush.
- Never trust coincidences of
peoples' reactions. You need to get prepared with plans for every little detail
you might expect.
…….
After all we are all humans. We
also have our own flaws and mistakes.